It’s that time of the year when visiting with family and friends is the order of the day. When was the last time you opened your home to a guest and all you can think is, “Why did I do this?” Well, maybe the script will be flipped this year and you will be a guest in someone else’s home. Being on the receiving end of hospitality comes with its own responsibilities. So here are some Buzzz tips on being a gracious houseguest, ensuring invitations are kept open.
Do Not Show Up Unannounced
Life is awfully busy; between work, more work and taking care of a family, we can barely stop to scratch our heads. It can be quite embarrassing having an unannounced guest over and the house is not in order. Therefore, be courteous and give others a chance to make their home ‘guest ready’, by calling or texting beforehand.
And even when your visit is expected, arrive on time. It shows some concern about the host’s schedule and their other engagements.
Carry A Gift
Show up with a gift, not just your ‘two long hands’. This is a thoughtful gesture that is sure to warm the heart of your host. A good idea is a bottle of wine or a décor keepsake. Put some thought into the gift and get something you know will be appreciated. A monetary offer can also be made; give your host the choice to refuse.
Follow The House Rules
Any good host will tell you ‘make yourself at home’ but the invitation is by no means an excuse to get carried away and do as you please. “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” Observe, observe, observe! If shoes are removed before entering the house, follow suit. Don’t be carefree and hang around placing your feet in the sofa or on the center table. This could come across as being rude and disrespectful.
Clean Up After Yourself
If you live like a slob at home, leave that behaviour there- HOME. Your host’s place is not an Air BnB or a five star hotel, so don’t expect others to clean up after you. Keep shared and personal space clean; replace what you move; and keep your personal items together, occupying as little space as possible. Dishes, in this magical land, do not wash themselves (nor do meals prepare themselves), so offer to help wherever possible. Your host might refuse the offer, but the thought counts.
Have Some Respect
Even if there are no rules, care for your host’s home as you would your own (or even better). Simple things like using a coaster or conserving on utilities is expected.
And whatever you do, DO NOT snoop! Nothing could be worse than finding out your guest has been searching through your things.
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