What’s in a kiss? Much has been said about humans showing affection with their lips. A kiss is like the appetizer to the big meal. In fact, it is like having sex without taking one’s clothes off.
A kiss, whether light or dominant, is such a marquee inspiration for humans. However, the tragic, and in some cases comedic aspects of a kiss make some people intolerant of it. For example, when a man sees a woman with luscious puckers, there is an urge to kiss; but one should take care in the art of kissing because there are many turnoffs, such as the ghastly mood killer – halitosis (popularly known as bad breath). That is a major hazard, so make sure your breath is fresh and if you are at a club, do not kiss if you are imbibing liquor.
Like anything in life, a combination of factors will affect a situation’s end result.
Leaning forward, eyes closed, lips gently brushing each other – the butterfly effect takes charge. Then the “choke” of intimacy grips, sending the couple into ecstasy. Kiss her hard, but softly. Sounds like an oxymoron? Naw! Hold the woman firmly by the waist and let your hands roam her body and I can guarantee that you will leave her breathless. That is the kiss of DOMINANCE!
A kiss should be sensuous, not too wet and not too dry. Importantly, the person shouldn’t be trying to swallow your face.
Me? I like sucking and licking on the lips and tongue, not too forceful though unless the situation dictates it. A female friend of mine told me: “I love to run my tongue over a man’s lips and suck them individually”. She however concedes, “When the kissing gets too wet I feel as if I’m drowning”.
At first, the kiss should be tentative – it’s like a game of chess, so feel out the person for resistance. If you sense resistance, then you should take it slow, because the person may feel inhibited.
A good kiss comes with less tongue action, so it’s obvious, a bad kiss would involve too much tongue and saliva. “Eww, it can be nasty when men can’t kiss good”, I was told. One young lady said, “It is my mouth and they are trying to shove their tongues down your throat, choking you half to death.”
Come on guys, remember the ladies say a good kiss is if the man can make her forget she was even standing.
Remarkably, a kiss, as said earlier is complimented by many things. To be utterly and totally seduced by a kiss: let yourself go, keep the excess saliva in, and enjoy floating away on your lover’s lips.