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Things My Father’s Taught Me

Things My Father's Taught Me

The importance of fathers in the family has been a constant reiteration as they represent a source of discipline, stability and protection. These generic responsibilities, though important, are minuscule in  comparison to the life lessons fathers teach. Fathers instill in their daughters the principles of value, worth and how she ought to be treated by a man; while in his son, the principles of responsibility and respect are taught. Each relationship is different, but the presence of fathers is important in teaching these lessons; so Buzzz Magazine caught up with these gentlemen to hear what their fathers taught them.

Things My Father's Taught Me
Photographer: Andrew McKenley

 

David Crawford

Marketing Officer Fidelity Motors Limited

My father was a legend. He taught me a lot by example. He always gave his all and was dedicated to family, his job and a number of organizations.He was a man of tradition and instilled in me and the entire family the love for sports. We would all watch and attend sporting events together as a family. Family life was very important to him, so we did everything as a family ,from vacations to attending the same school; Wolmers.

Our vacations are some of my favourite memories with my father, I remember him being present when I graduated College in Minnesota and being able to show him off to my friends. His selfless nature and how he treated others were but few of the many things that made him great. I would not be the man I am today without his leadership. The most important lessons he taught me were to put God first; keep family close; and in whatever you do, do it well. I want my kids, in the future, to be able to say that they have the best dad and feel comfortable enough to talk to me about anything.


Things My Father's Taught MeKemmar Lewis

Category Senior Brand Manager – Spirits and Beers Caribbean Producers Jamaica

Fathers need to be active in the lives of their children; know how they relate to others and who they are emulating. There are some lessons that can only be taught by a father. They instil drive, confidence and courage and teach their kids how to challenge for. My father was very confident, courageous and committed. He never missed work and observing that, taught me the importance of work and understanding that a man should work. He always took me to work with him and taught me to put family first, always move forward. He taught me how to not be ruled by my emotions and gave me relationship advice, which I still receive to this day. He taught me how to trim, shave and easy ways to recover from illnesses or exhaustion.

My father has never complimented me to my face, however, I will never forget his peers sharing with me how highly he speaks of me to them; that made me very proud. My father’s influence in my life is what made me the man I am today and I try to have that same influence in my daughter’s life. I encourage her and ensure that she socializes and has balance in her life. I want her to learn the importance of discipline and manners, so I do my best to provide that example for her and surround her with people who also display those same characteristics. If nothing else, I want her to know that she should never give up and that she should treat her husband the same way her mom treats me. That is important for me as a father to pass on to her.

 

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