Sex & Relationships

Keeping ‘IT’ alive after 55

after-55

Fifties are the new thirties: you can still be sexy and outgoing while looking and feeling fabulous!  Only now, the kids are out the way (for the most part), you are more experienced, more accomplished, more secure financially, with a confidence level out of this world!

What a better way to use your lease on life than in the bedroom? Who said love and sex in your fifties has to be boring? Spice it up! Pull out the stunt moves and equipment. Go ahead and keep it alive after 55!
For those who find themselves single at this age, all hope is not lost- the dating scene is rich. Consider sites like “Ourtime.com. Love Again, Over50 Mature Dating” among many others where you can develop a personal, romantic, and even sexual relationship after contacting someone over the internet.

Once that connection is forged, age can actually be a plus when it comes to orgasms in women. Yes, older women have better orgasms than younger women because they have more practice and know their bodies better. And the onset of menopause has its up side. When it’s over you never have to worry about another period, ever. That just has to be the best gift for the older woman who is in charge of her life and still feeling hot, hot, hot. For the first time in her life sex doesn’t mean pregnancy, it means freedom and fun.

For men who may worry about their erections as they age, that worry is quite unnecessary. Even younger men take advantage of Viagra, Levitra and Cialis for that extra boost. Is there a positive side effect when men take longer to get an erection? Oh yes, there is more time for foreplay, which women actually want. Direct stimulation of the whole body is a more effective way of getting and keeping an erection and it allows your partner to have more fun in sensual play.

Together you can also explore some brand new ideas, toys for instance. I don’t mean the stunt dildo in the porn flick, but I do mean a variety of his and her toys. The butterfly is a great little stimulant. Let your partner keep the remote and you get the vibrating panties. He flicks the switch, turns up the intensity and you get all hot and bothered. Other small vibrators include the egg and the pocket rocket, which is no bigger than a lipstick. These can be applied to both men and women. And just when you thought we’d run out of ideas, there is the vibrating condom, flavoured condom, edible condom, hot and cold condom…..you get the idea.

Now, if you’re in those fabulous ‘over fifties’ you’re going to want to get your groove on from the skin up. What do I mean by that? Nothing beats great underwear as the first layer along with hair, clothes and nails that are well manicured. Start by emptying your underwear drawer. Seriously! Get rid of those bingo baggies and stretched out underpants. Save those items that fit well and make you look great and feel fabulous and sexy.

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