It’s the season of good cheer, and we couldn’t agree more: give a little more this holiday season, pun intended. We’re not telling you to spend what you don’t have. Instead, give your partner a sexual supernova. Bring your most erotic fantasies to life by investing the time to explore your partner’s body and soul. Surprise him or her with any one of these simple ideas, or one of your own…and with the fatigue that comes with the festivities, all the better to indulge each other intimately.
I Saw What You Did There…
Let the games begin! Nothing sets the stage for mind-blowing sex quite like slow, deliberate and enticing foreplay. Anyone can be the chaser, though I love the idea of the woman being chased. Subtly place clues of your sexual fantasy around the apartment for your partner to find. For every clue discovered, both partners are required to remove an article of clothing. Don’t remove similar articles of clothing – for example, one should clothing from the top so… a shirt here, some undies there, and we’re off. After each piece of clothing is removed, throw in a kiss as encouragement for what is to come. When the puzzle is complete, take your time to follow each instruction precisely, making sure you get it right. Pay attention, let your partner’s reaction be your guide. Enthrall your partner, sweetening the deal with some whipped cream or chocolate syrup and perhaps, some strawberries. I’m going down and I’m taking you with me.
Naughty or… Nah You’re Naughty
We’ve all heard or seen — even if only in the movies — the racy French maid who brought sexy back in their one-size-too-small uniforms. As she slowly dusted into the evening, at 6:30 p.m. exactly, Dr Long John, having seen his seventh, eighth, perhaps ninth patient for the day, returned to his office to unwind…Ma coquine! The rest of the story is what you make it – role-play is always fun, if you do it right. And let’s face it, every now and again we want to become someone else. Just do it!Explore your most provocative, sordid and unadulterated thoughts. And while you’re at it, up the ante and surprise her by throwing in 31 Favours for sexual services you’ll both savour. Ladies, there are favours for him too. Satisfaction – just what the doctor ordered.
It’s Getting ‘Dicey’
Let’s make merry and build a new experience from the startby rolling that sex dice. Instead of doing what you’re accustomed to in the bedroom, change it all up. Get out the bedroom, strip down to the undies, and get comfortable. Come up with a series of simple questions that will test how well your partner knows you. Sit facing each other. Each wrong answer requires a roll of the dice, so invest in that tongue dinger and pleasure feather — hint, hint — and have them on hand for a ‘dicey’ experience. When you’re done, let the Jingle Bells rock. There’s nothing like a new perspective to fan the flames of passion.
The Gift of Kinky
Get him out of the house. Take his keys and close the door. When he returns, meet him at the door with nothing on. Did someone say bondage? I knew I heard right. Pull him into you, close the door and undress him right there. Throw a necktie on him and lead him to bedroom. You’re in full control, he has no say. If ever he got anything wrong in the bedroom, you’re gonna teach him how to get it right. Dominate him, and take control of your pleasure. Tie him to the bed with his necktie, handcuff him, gag him with his socks and give him a dirty little strip tease. Make his body ache for you. Teach him to work for you. Give him the kisses you yearn for, along the rib cage and down the groin, where sensual touches blur the line between pleasure and pain. Make him beg for you, relishing every slow second of it. Whip him into position, literally, and don’t forget the flavoured condiments. By all means, shift his gear stick at regular intervals as you take him into overdrive Madame Dominatrix.
Ménagea trois… and why not?
Threesomes aren’t just a male fantasy, lots of women admit to fantasizing about them too. And this is not everybody’s cup of tea, so to speak. Before you go chastising me, if this is not your thing, simply move on. However, there are some who are here for just such an experiment. Decide on who will be the third party. The idea of having two sets of lips caressing your skin sounds like a jolly good night. Threesomes will peak ecstasy, but be very careful – this is something that requires much thought and discussion before you proceed.
Naturally, we want to know what others are doing for their partner this season. So we asked Odette* what she would do for her boyfriend (of almost 10 years), Brad*. She told us it’s no fuss. Here is what she shared: “When people hear ‘do something sexy for your partner’ they usually think about what they need to buy, which positions they need to Google and really make a big fuss over nothing.” For her, the simple things matter. “I know my boyfriend loves me for who I am, but he also likes particular things about me or likes particular things that I do/wear. For example, he likes my hair a certain way, likes a particular type of underwear, and particular position, etc. Now I don’t usually oblige him all his likes all at once…but he’ll have a great Christmas.”
Odette is doing everything her boyfriend likes from the particular hairstyle, to jewellery, and the whole nine yards, as it were. “I’ll do my hair how he likes; wear his favourite earrings/accessories, perhaps jewellery he got me a few Christmases ago. I will put on an outfit he likes and the underwear he prefers. One by one I’m going to make him know I’m wearing items he likes. So as we’re driving to dinner I’ll reveal an item…save the undies for last, of course. When we’re in a highly inappropriate setting, perhaps at the dinner table with his family, I’ll whisper in his ear that I’m wearing the underwear he likes.It will be a very swift drive home, and the night will end with a combination of his favourites!”
It doesn’t take ingenuity or a billion dollars to have a fantastic holiday with your partner. And at the end of the day it is not just sex – it’s spending time with each other, learning the little quirks that not only make you different from each other, but make you crazy about each other. It’s about sharing with each other, trusting each other and above all, pleasing one another: Happy Holidays!
* Name Changed Upon Request
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I Saw What You Did There…
Let the games begin! Nothing sets the stage for mind-blowing sex quite like slow, deliberate and enticing foreplay. Anyone can be the chaser, though I love the idea of the woman being chased. Subtly place clues of your sexual fantasy around the apartment for your partner to find. For every clue discovered, both partners are required to remove an article of clothing. Don’t remove similar articles of clothing – for example, one should clothing from the top so… a shirt here, some undies there, and we’re off. After each piece of clothing is removed, throw in a kiss as encouragement for what is to come. When the puzzle is complete, take your time to follow each instruction precisely, making sure you get it right. Pay attention, let your partner’s reaction be your guide. Enthrall your partner, sweetening the deal with some whipped cream or chocolate syrup and perhaps, some strawberries. I’m going down and I’m taking you with me.
Naughty or… Nah You’re Naughty
We’ve all heard or seen — even if only in the movies — the racy French maid who brought sexy back in their one-size-too-small uniforms. As she slowly dusted into the evening, at 6:30 p.m. exactly, Dr Long John, having seen his seventh, eighth, perhaps ninth patient for the day, returned to his office to unwind…Ma coquine! The rest of the story is what you make it – role-play is always fun, if you do it right. And let’s face it, every now and again we want to become someone else. Just do it!Explore your most provocative, sordid and unadulterated thoughts. And while you’re at it, up the ante and surprise her by throwing in 31 Favours for sexual services you’ll both savour. Ladies, there are favours for him too. Satisfaction – just what the doctor ordered.
It’s Getting ‘Dicey’
Let’s make merry and build a new experience from the startby rolling that sex dice. Instead of doing what you’re accustomed to in the bedroom, change it all up. Get out the bedroom, strip down to the undies, and get comfortable. Come up with a series of simple questions that will test how well your partner knows you. Sit facing each other. Each wrong answer requires a roll of the dice, so invest in that tongue dinger and pleasure feather — hint, hint — and have them on hand for a ‘dicey’ experience. When you’re done, let the Jingle Bells rock. There’s nothing like a new perspective to fan the flames of passion.
The Gift of Kinky
Get him out of the house. Take his keys and close the door. When he returns, meet him at the door with nothing on. Did someone say bondage? I knew I heard right. Pull him into you, close the door and undress him right there. Throw a necktie on him and lead him to bedroom. You’re in full control, he has no say. If ever he got anything wrong in the bedroom, you’re gonna teach him how to get it right. Dominate him, and take control of your pleasure. Tie him to the bed with his necktie, handcuff him, gag him with his socks and give him a dirty little strip tease. Make his body ache for you. Teach him to work for you. Give him the kisses you yearn for, along the rib cage and down the groin, where sensual touches blur the line between pleasure and pain. Make him beg for you, relishing every slow second of it. Whip him into position, literally, and don’t forget the flavoured condiments. By all means, shift his gear stick at regular intervals as you take him into overdrive Madame Dominatrix.
Ménagea trois… and why not?
Threesomes aren’t just a male fantasy, lots of women admit to fantasizing about them too. And this is not everybody’s cup of tea, so to speak. Before you go chastising me, if this is not your thing, simply move on. However, there are some who are here for just such an experiment. Decide on who will be the third party. The idea of having two sets of lips caressing your skin sounds like a jolly good night. Threesomes will peak ecstasy, but be very careful – this is something that requires much thought and discussion before you proceed.
Naturally, we want to know what others are doing for their partner this season. So we asked Odette* what she would do for her boyfriend (of almost 10 years), Brad*. She told us it’s no fuss. Here is what she shared: “When people hear ‘do something sexy for your partner’ they usually think about what they need to buy, which positions they need to Google and really make a big fuss over nothing.” For her, the simple things matter. “I know my boyfriend loves me for who I am, but he also likes particular things about me or likes particular things that I do/wear. For example, he likes my hair a certain way, likes a particular type of underwear, and particular position, etc. Now I don’t usually oblige him all his likes all at once…but he’ll have a great Christmas.”
Odette is doing everything her boyfriend likes from the particular hairstyle, to jewellery, and the whole nine yards, as it were. “I’ll do my hair how he likes; wear his favourite earrings/accessories, perhaps jewellery he got me a few Christmases ago. I will put on an outfit he likes and the underwear he prefers. One by one I’m going to make him know I’m wearing items he likes. So as we’re driving to dinner I’ll reveal an item…save the undies for last, of course. When we’re in a highly inappropriate setting, perhaps at the dinner table with his family, I’ll whisper in his ear that I’m wearing the underwear he likes.It will be a very swift drive home, and the night will end with a combination of his favourites!”
It doesn’t take ingenuity or a billion dollars to have a fantastic holiday with your partner. And at the end of the day it is not just sex – it’s spending time with each other, learning the little quirks that not only make you different from each other, but make you crazy about each other. It’s about sharing with each other, trusting each other and above all, pleasing one another: Happy Holidays!
* Name Changed Upon Request
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