There is an innate desire in us to have the people we care about, notice us. Whether it is the accomplishments that we have made or growth that has been realised, there is a sensation experienced when we are noticed by the right people. For some women, it is important that their men notice the sometimes subtle changes they display in appearance, behavior or sensual appeal. And, often times when these changes go unnoticed, it is argued that we men are not present to a woman’s attempt to gain our attention. However, is it that we are truly oblivious or is it that women are misinformed about how much we notice?
Most men form a general impression of a woman within the first few seconds of seeing her. A woman’s overall appearance creates the foundation for the type of interaction that will follow. For many of us, we assess right away whether you are the type of girl we want to date and possibly marry; show off to our friends and family; interact with only behind closed doors or whether you are the type that is nothing more than a friend. In some extreme cases, we make the determination that we really want nothing to do with you. While first impressions are usually difficult to break once formed, there are some very specific things to which we pay keen attention that influence our impressions. So the question is; what exactly do we notice?
Your Confidence
There is nothing more attractive than a confident woman. A woman’s confidence is quite captivating and very alluring. Knowing your worth yet not parading as though you are too good for us is a quality we find very attractive. It is displayed through the strut in your walk, the command of your voice. Exhibiting a sense of self-awareness and respect are not only traits we notice, but it also increases our level of attraction towards you. A woman who is a “boss” but not bossy is sure to have our attention.
Your Physique
Your general physique is also something we notice. Different men prefer different things; some like small petite women, others like a tall modelesque stature while some men prefer their woman to be “fluffy.” Whatever the natural shape of your body, we notice changes to our preference. So if we prefer you slim, and you become fluffy, we notice; and if we love you fluffy and you begin to lose weight, we also notice. While maintaining a healthy physique is important for your own wellbeing, it is very important to establish a mutual ground that satisfies both our desires. On a superficial physical level, we also notice those parts of the body that we are generally attracted to; from the perkiness of your breasts and derrière, the striking stature of your legs or the beauty of your feet, to the sultry appeal of your eyes and smile, we do also notice your physical assets.
To Read More: Purchase your copy of Volume 9 #3– July-August 2017
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There is an innate desire in us to have the people we care about, notice us. Whether it is the accomplishments that we have made or growth that has been realised, there is a sensation experienced when we are noticed by the right people. For some women, it is important that their men notice the sometimes subtle changes they display in appearance, behavior or sensual appeal. And, often times when these changes go unnoticed, it is argued that we men are not present to a woman’s attempt to gain our attention. However, is it that we are truly oblivious or is it that women are misinformed about how much we notice?
Most men form a general impression of a woman within the first few seconds of seeing her. A woman’s overall appearance creates the foundation for the type of interaction that will follow. For many of us, we assess right away whether you are the type of girl we want to date and possibly marry; show off to our friends and family; interact with only behind closed doors or whether you are the type that is nothing more than a friend. In some extreme cases, we make the determination that we really want nothing to do with you. While first impressions are usually difficult to break once formed, there are some very specific things to which we pay keen attention that influence our impressions. So the question is; what exactly do we notice?
Your Confidence
There is nothing more attractive than a confident woman. A woman’s confidence is quite captivating and very alluring. Knowing your worth yet not parading as though you are too good for us is a quality we find very attractive. It is displayed through the strut in your walk, the command of your voice. Exhibiting a sense of self-awareness and respect are not only traits we notice, but it also increases our level of attraction towards you. A woman who is a “boss” but not bossy is sure to have our attention.
Your Physique
Your general physique is also something we notice. Different men prefer different things; some like small petite women, others like a tall modelesque stature while some men prefer their woman to be “fluffy.” Whatever the natural shape of your body, we notice changes to our preference. So if we prefer you slim, and you become fluffy, we notice; and if we love you fluffy and you begin to lose weight, we also notice. While maintaining a healthy physique is important for your own wellbeing, it is very important to establish a mutual ground that satisfies both our desires. On a superficial physical level, we also notice those parts of the body that we are generally attracted to; from the perkiness of your breasts and derrière, the striking stature of your legs or the beauty of your feet, to the sultry appeal of your eyes and smile, we do also notice your physical assets.
To Read More: Purchase your copy of Volume 9 #3– July-August 2017
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