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Things to Stop doing on Online: Monitoring Your Kids Online Presence

Things to Stop doing on Online: Monitoring Your Kids Online Presence

In its purest form, the internet is a beautiful tool for discovery, communication and information. However, when manipulated by the wrong persons, the internet transforms into a space of hatred, criticism and callous agendas. Learning to maneuver our way through negative online influences is what gives us the opportunity to enjoy the internet for its intended purpose; global connection.

In today’s society, the internet has become so enmeshed in our social, recreational and professional lives. And while this type of integration has many exceptional benefits, it has also birthed an era of predatory behaviours, cyber bullying and “catfishing” – a type of cyberbullying where person’s online identities are stolen and used for fraudulent or illicit activities. These are but a few of the ways in which the internet has been manipulated from its intended purpose.

In light of this reality, we have a social and personal responsibility to minimize unsatisfactory experiences on the internet. This is especially important for younger generations who spend a lot of time online and who seem to be more disposed to risk of exposure to negative online influences. So here are a few tips on some of the things we ought not to do online and how as parents we can manage our child’s online presence and interactions.


Posting sensitive information

There seems to be an obsession with showcasing our lifestyle through pictures on every social media platform. But even the most innocent photos can encourage stalking and invite predators to resourcefully retrieve our personal information. So always be weary of the following internet activities:

1. Do not visibly post vehicle license plate number, home exterior or community names.

2. Avoid posting/tagging your current location.

3. Posting images of yourselves or friends dressed/behaving inappropriately can come back and bite you.

4. Be mindful of the type of photos you’re posting of your children.

Adding strangers/accepting invitations from strangers

While the internet connects us globally, let’s be a bit more cautious about communicating with unfamiliar persons. It is highly recommended that you only engage persons you have met in person or knew prior. However, if you enjoy the global connection, then at least it is important that you;

1. Limit and protect your personal information online

2. Do not share personal information about yourself with strangers

3. Do not continue a conversation with someone who is hesitant to reveal themselves in person

Cyberbullying

Did you know that by simply forwarding a rumour or sharing an unpleasant photo of someone then you’re engaging in cyberbullying? Not only is this not a good example to set for your children, it’s also very dangerous and can have serious implications on yourself and others. I’d say this is a good time to apply the adage, “if you have nothing good to say, say nothing it all.”

 

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